Holding and Sitting - Building Baby's Core Strength

Reviewed by: HiMommy Expert Board

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5 min read

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May 13, 2025

When we think of strength training, we rarely picture babies. Yet your little one is actually building impressive muscle strength every day—particularly in their core, which includes the muscles of the abdomen, back, and hips. This core strength is essential for nearly every physical milestone your baby will achieve, from sitting independently to crawling, standing, and eventually walking.

Why Core Strength Matters

Core strength is the foundation for all movement and physical development. A strong core allows your baby to:

  • Maintain stable positions against gravity
  • Transition between different positions
  • Develop coordinated movements
  • Support fine motor skills (when the trunk is stable, the hands can work more effectively)
  • Build confidence in their physical abilities

At this stage, helping your baby build core strength isn't about structured "workouts"—it's about providing opportunities for natural movement and exploration that engage these important muscles.

Signs of Developing Core Strength

How can you tell if your baby's core muscles are developing well? Look for these signs:

  • Head control: Your baby can hold their head steady when pulled to sitting
  • Prop sitting: Your baby can sit with some support, perhaps leaning on their hands
  • Rolling: Your baby can roll from back to tummy or tummy to back (or both)
  • Trunk stability: Your baby doesn't immediately topple over when placed in a sitting position
  • Pushing up: During tummy time, your baby pushes up on hands or forearms with a straight back

Simple Activities to Build Core Strength

You can help strengthen your baby's core with these playful activities:

Tummy Time Champion

Tummy time remains one of the most effective core-strengthening positions, even as your baby gets older. Place enticing toys slightly out of reach to encourage reaching, which works both the back and abdominal muscles. For variety, try tummy time on different surfaces like a firm pillow or your chest.

Assisted Sitting

Help your baby practice sitting by providing just enough support for success. Try sitting them between your legs on the floor, with your legs creating a supportive "nest." As they gain strength, gradually reduce your support, perhaps just keeping a hand ready behind them to catch them if they start to topple.

Mini Sit-Ups

While your baby is lying on their back, gently grasp their hands and slowly pull them to a sitting position. This isn't about creating a perfect sit-up—even lifting their head and shoulders slightly works those abdominal muscles. Make it fun by bringing them all the way up for a kiss or a smile at the top of each "rep."

Supported Standing

Even before your baby can stand independently, holding them in a supported standing position helps strengthen not just their legs but also their core. Hold them under their arms and let them bear weight on their feet while singing a song or making silly faces.

Rolling Games

Encourage rolling by placing a favorite toy just out of reach to one side of your baby. If needed, you can gently guide their hips to help them learn the motion. Rolling in both directions provides excellent all-around core strengthening.

Gentle Tipping

When your baby is sitting between your legs or supported in your lap, very gently and slowly tip them slightly to one side, then the other, allowing them to use their core muscles to right themselves. Always keep your hands ready to support them if needed.

Creating a Strength-Building Environment

Beyond specific activities, you can create an environment that naturally encourages core-strengthening movement:

  • Limit time in containers: While swings, bouncers, and seats have their place, try to limit the time your baby spends in them, as they don't allow for active muscle use
  • Provide floor time: A safe space on the floor with interesting toys at varying distances encourages reaching, rolling, and eventually scooting
  • Offer variety: Different positions and surfaces provide diverse sensory input and movement challenges
  • Follow their lead: Notice which positions and activities your baby enjoys, and build on these natural interests

When to Seek Support

While all babies develop at their own pace, talk to your pediatrician if you notice:

  • Your baby struggles to hold their head up by 4 months
  • Your baby shows no interest in sitting with support by 6 months
  • Your baby seems to use one side of their body significantly more than the other
  • Your baby seems unusually floppy or stiff when trying to sit or move

Celebrating Every Effort

Remember that building strength takes time. Some days your baby may seem stronger than others, and that's completely normal. Celebrate every attempt and achievement, no matter how small it may seem. Each wiggly tummy time session and wobbly sitting moment is contributing to your baby's growing strength and confidence.

This important period of core strength development isn't just about physical growth—it's laying the groundwork for your baby's independence and exploration of the world. With your support and lots of playful practice, your little one is building the strong foundation they need for all the exciting physical milestones ahead!